Addiction has a way of making one tend toward denial. “I can quit any time I want” is such a cliche thing for addicts to say, it’s easy to forget that people actually say that shit with a straight face, but they do.
I know it’s a top comment but caffeine seems like the antithesis of your point. Most people are painfully aware when they miss a day of caffeine and have to deal with the headache. Others are a lot more subtle, especially when the withdrawal is psychological
A lot of the things mentioned here are enjoyable, (caffeine, sugar, social media and yes, masturbation), but most people are not addicted to them. They simply do a cost-benefit analysis. Take smoking. I used to smoke 3 packs a day and it was very enjoyable, but the risk of getting a serious illness (or giving one to someone else) outweighed the attraction, so I stopped. Across the US smoking rates declined massively over the last few decades, so it seems many others had the same idea as me. I would do the same if anything I really enjoyed turned out likely to do me great harm.
Now I drink coffee every single day. I eat lots of sugar, (but I also do bucketloads of exercise… I run 50 miles a week for instance). So the probability of harm is small. I also drink a beer or two most days. Sometimes for work I have to travel to remote camps and spend a couple of weeks without a drink. Doesn’t bother me. But I do enjoy the first beer when I return home just that little bit more.
All of them?
Addiction has a way of making one tend toward denial. “I can quit any time I want” is such a cliche thing for addicts to say, it’s easy to forget that people actually say that shit with a straight face, but they do.
I know it’s a top comment but caffeine seems like the antithesis of your point. Most people are painfully aware when they miss a day of caffeine and have to deal with the headache. Others are a lot more subtle, especially when the withdrawal is psychological
A lot of the things mentioned here are enjoyable, (caffeine, sugar, social media and yes, masturbation), but most people are not addicted to them. They simply do a cost-benefit analysis. Take smoking. I used to smoke 3 packs a day and it was very enjoyable, but the risk of getting a serious illness (or giving one to someone else) outweighed the attraction, so I stopped. Across the US smoking rates declined massively over the last few decades, so it seems many others had the same idea as me. I would do the same if anything I really enjoyed turned out likely to do me great harm.
Now I drink coffee every single day. I eat lots of sugar, (but I also do bucketloads of exercise… I run 50 miles a week for instance). So the probability of harm is small. I also drink a beer or two most days. Sometimes for work I have to travel to remote camps and spend a couple of weeks without a drink. Doesn’t bother me. But I do enjoy the first beer when I return home just that little bit more.