

Hey! I’m a psychologist who also happens to be a gamer and be in a relationship. I have something to add.
Your real problem isn’t really about gaming. You could change gaming to any activity, and your complaint would remain valid. Your real problem is me-time vs. we-time. The exact balance of the two and what programs are included will be different in every relationship. You need to communicate and find a balance that works for both of you.
Gaming is a fun hobby, but when it starts hurting other areas of one’s life, you need to address them. For me time spent with my girl is important, so I usually don’t game in the evening, we watch a show together.


Hungarian here, learned in school and through games/videos