I’d be curious what you mean by more control/customizability for sway/i3. I’m using niri now, and came from sway, and haven’t really notice a difference in capabilities (although niri has easier animations and the overview). And now I’m wondering if I just wasn’t using/understanding sway to the max.
I think on my multi-monitor setup, sway is maybe slightly better suited, but on my laptop I’m definitely preferring niri–but open to finding out new things about other wms that I missed.





This is the answer. You probably could learn *nix terminals, networking, hosting, security, and a myriad of other skills all at once if you really had to focus on it–but more often, that will just result in half-started projects and systems which never come together. Dipping your toes in first, and then gradually migrating as you build up your knowledge is the best way to not be overwhelmed, burnt out, or frozen from decision overload.
One of the nicest things about Linux is you can run most any software written for Linux on most any distro (although some may require more work than others). Picking a beginner friendly distro like Mint, with helper tools and a gui, and installing Jellyfin on it will give you a place to start. You can gradually learn the console and install other services and build out organically. Rather than hopping straight into some Enterprise Linux.