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  • Parental involvement in medical decisions is a completely different topic than medical treatment by age.

    The AAP, which STRONGLY recommends against medication has a consensus of medical professionals that medication might be necessary in very specific situations, is the best group of knowledgeable people to make that call. Definitely more qualified than some random person who just looks at numbers and thinks society or politicians would make a better call than medical professionals who use evidence based practices.

    I’m not saying I even have an opinion on this, but I do think if someone said they think 3 is too young to take Adderall I think that doesn’t automatically tell me they are anti medicine or a bad person.

    That is an opinion, and saying they less qualified to decide on appropriate ages doesn’t mean they are anti-medicine or a bad person unless they try to make laws that keep medical professionals from providing evidence based health care.


  • When I was young I enjoyed working on cars because they were complex enough to be interesting and affordable enough to do as a hobby. Like my first car in the 90s was a beat up 280z I bought for $500 and I spent a few hundred bucks making it slightly less beat up plus a new radio and speakers! Lived a few miles out of town, and connected with my first long term girlfriend by giving her rides home.

    As time went on I had some other fun csr projects, including painting up the car I bought from an old lady who drove it to church on Sundays like a dairy cow while using it for deliveries. Eventually bought an 8 year old Honda Civic Si and did the sound system swap again and worked on that too. Again, didn’t poor a lot of money into it but loved working on it to improve some things and might have if I had more money available.

    Now I have a three year old vehicle that is super reliable and complex enough that I don’t plan on doing anything to it beyond attaching stuff to make it useful. I would love to buy a 20+ year old model vehicle and convert it to electric but that kind of stuff is way beyond my resources and paying someone to do it wouldn’t be as fun. There is just something really satisfying about maintaining complex machinery that I use almost every day.

    I should get an e bike but I am afraid of other drivers.






  • A lot of microaggressions are assumed to be about one thing but are actually something else. Maybe the white woman clutched her purse because he was a man. Maybe she was just moving it closer in a tight space. Maybe he reminded her of someone specific. Sure, it is probably race and if the same person does it multiple times it could be confirmed. And yes, it is totally reasonable for a black man to see a bunch of white women clutching purses and assume there is a pattern even if not every single one was due to racism.

    Microaggressions are one of those things that are real while also frequently misread because it is impossible to infer intent from a single vague action. Better to assume the minority/oppressed group is right, and if accused of something in error just let it go.





  • One big reason for the US guidelines being so strict is that they apply to the entire country, which ranges from Florida to Alaska and everywhere in between, and they are worst case. Plus with a massive population fed by capitalist companies that value money over lives and frequently altered food for profit, deaths in a large population are going to happen.

    I don’t leave stuff that needs refridgeration out for more than a few hours so that it holds up for several days and the time varies widely by food type. Food does need to cool down significantly before refridgerating, although sometimes I will put it in within a couple hours to avoid forgetting. For most foods I have a four hour limit outside the fridge.

    Commercially raised chicken has a very high chance of having salmonella. Raw chicken is only out long enough to prepare and cook. Once cooked I don’t worry anymore than anything else.

    I also use the dates as rough estimates and when to pay more attention to spoilage. I don’t worry about safety for canned foods that don’t have signs of spoilage, but a soup can a couple years past the best by date has likely probably separated and textures will be off. Dates on bags of chips are a sign they are will be going stale within a few months.


  • Other than obvious needs like food, water, and shelter, what people need and what they desire can vary from person to person. They also don’t really know if anything else is a need or a desire without attempting to go without it.

    I don’t need social interaction. I’m probably better for having it, and there is definitely a desire for a few close family and friends. But if stuck on a desert island alone I could adjust fairly easily.

    Some people would be unable alone on an island with nobody to interact with. They need social interaction to thrive, and may even need it to simply keep on living.


  • At least five days when I was in a feverish hell of mono, just drank a lot of water.

    Other than that, I have gone without eating for like 24 hours or so a lot when I was younger either by just being distracted and not being hungry or when I was broke in my early 20s and had to couch surf for a couple of months. Got by eating once a day.

    Now my meals are so structured that it would take effort to get back to eating only when hungry but I should start that so I can get back to a healthy weight.