• Iron Lynx@lemmy.world
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      Bonus points if, when called out for it or otherwise inconvenienced for not putting the cart where it belongs, they double down and continue to dump the cart in a parking spot.

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        So if you miss the trash bag when throwing the stuff in McDonalds you don’t pick it up, right? Because there’s people paid to do that. FFS…

        Yeah cleaners are paid to clean that doesn’t mean you should thrash the place. Same thing applies here.

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          I thought this was when I was in 4th grade. I would rip up paper under my desk so the janitors would have work and wouldn’t get fired. But then I grew up and learned there’s other things these positions do. It’s like some people stopped growing at a certain age.

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          I used to know a guy that would leave all his trash right at the table and say “there’s people paid to clean that up”

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    • Not saying “please” or “thank you” to people in the service industry
    • Not able to accept when they are wrong
    • Any type of “I know enough and don’t need to learn more” type of behavior
    • Prioritizing an organization (political party, church, sports team, etc) over actual people
    • Littering
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      Instant red flag. Double red flag if it seems like they’re getting something out of it

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    They think corporations and for-profit organizations ever have their best interest at heart.

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      My man!

      I doubt this would be first comment on Reddit.

      PS: I wasn’t raised like that I had ti find out myself, cause I felt there is something wrong…

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    Non-adherence to the “Golden Rule.” It’s very simple, do unto others as you would have them do unto you.

    Religious components aside, just don’t be a jerk to others. Start from a place of respect and reevaluate after they show their colors.

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        Yeah, I’m a weirdo. Treating others how I want to be treated would be a fucking problem. I don’t like unstructured time in my workday. Forced breaks are traditionally fifteen minutes of me anxiously spinning my wheels. The golden rule would stipulate that I try to make sure other people get as few breaks as possible because I sincerely usually prefer to stay in my task flow/mindset. The reality is that my coworkers appreciate the flexibility my work style affords them. I will be there taking care of shit whenever they need their unstructured time. They can count on me to provide them with the opposite of what I want.

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          It doesn’t mean doing the exact same thing, it means treating others in the way you’d like to be treated.

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      That’s the plain and simple categorical imperative by our good friend Immanuel Kant!

      “Act only according to that maxim whereby you can at the same time will that it should become a universal law.”

      (it’s a mouthful but he was onto something!)

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        Put another way, “Don’t do shitty things just because you can get away with it; consider if everyone did what you do.”

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      Religious components aside,

      The ethic of reciprocity is found in pretty much every society that has ever been known to exist.

      As much as one or another religion might try to claim it as exclusively their own, it is really a basic pre-requisite for any sucessful society.

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      So if they like people being jerks to them, I can be - I mean they can be jerks to people?

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    They commit sexual harassment and assault.

    Seriously, just keep it in your pants and keep your damn hands to yourself, why is that so impossible for your lizard brain to comprehend?

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    Someone who spouts, Every single thing comes back to ‘gods plan’

    You got hurt and lost a job, God’s plan…

    Lost your baby to cancer, God’s plan…

    Mom got remarried after her first husband died in an accident, God’s plan…

    Gets offensive after a while

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      If you believe in the imaginary sky fairy, then everything that happens is part of his plan, isn’t that how this belief system works? (Unless you pray, then he’ll change his plan just to suit you). Or do you get to cherry-pick which bits you believe in? Oh wait…

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        Yeah and the be good honor system that only applies to them until they are caught being heinous… then it’s God is all forgiving… but only of them… me and you are heathens and deserved his wrath. Make it make sense… you cant

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      Being a registered Republican doesn’t even necessarily mean agreeing with them. In my state, registering as a Republican allows you to vote in the Republican primaries. Regardless of who wins that, the Republican is likely to win in the general election.

      Registering as a Republican gives me the most opportunity to elect the least shitty candidate.

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    My wife spit gum in the parking lot a couple months ago.

    I was not happy.

    There’s a few other instances lately where she’s not been thinking through things. She’s becoming more like her dad in her later middle age, and I’m getting concerned.

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    They use violent language frequently.

    Had a manager that said in a meeting, “Looks like I’ll have to start taking employees to the back and shooting them in the head.”

    This was over his employees not performing.

    Joke or not… wtf.

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      YES. I play online games, and there’s one guy that I played with a little bit that routinely refers to in-game fighting as rape, gangbang, and other violent sexual imagry. He recently started making these comments while trying to hit on one girl we play with, and it just feels so wrong.